rainbowchibbit:

*cracks knuckles* Okee doke I was going into a meeting when I got this but now I’m done for the day so here we go!

Listen up, anon.

I dunno where you are in the community but I think you need to take a step back because this whole statement of yours? Is heteronormative at best and both homophobic and transphobic at worst so I think you might be the poison, actually.

Let’s break this down. “A-specs are cishet at best” so just because someone isn’t sexually and/or romantically attracted to someone that makes them cis AND heterosexual?

First of all, heterosexuality is the attraction to the opposite gender. By definition. So people on the ace spectrum are literally not heterosexual. Literally. And to say that “well if you’re not gay you’re straight” is the most heteronormative ignorant bullshit I’ve ever heard in my entire life.

Second of all, there are trans ace people??? And homoromantic/biromantic/panromantic aces so what the fuck???

You’re literally acting like the very people the LGBT+ community stands up against. You don’t want people to treat you like a second class citizen because of your sexuality or your gender identity–so don’t turn around and be that asshole to people on the ace spectrum?? The absolute fuck?

Like boy howdy you need to do a lot of fucking soul searching. If you’re thinking of saying ace people aren’t oppressed–wow look what you’re doing right the fuck now. There’s a long history of aces in the LGBT+ community AND their struggles that they have to deal with from both outside AND inside the community. Mainstream LGBT groups are accepting of a-spec people but there’s some ridiculous backlash that a-spec people aren’t LGBT ~ENOUGH~ to be part of the community.

“Deleriousfromcoffee is no different why do you care??” This is such a fucking scary awful sentiment? You’re treating a HUMAN BEING a living person with FEELINGS like garbage just because of their sexuality you don’t think they have the right to feel like a part of a community made up of people who are LITERALLY FIGHTING TO BE THOUGHT OF AS HUMAN BEINGS FOR THEIR SEXUALITY???? Are you??? Seriously not getting why your attitude is super fucking toxic and hypocritical??? I don’t care how old or young you are, your words can damage people and this whole culture of anonymous hatred freeing you of responsibility has to stop because you forget you’re dealing with a real human being on the other side of the screen. It’s easy to demonize them and say and call them terrible things because you don’t have to see their face, cause they’re just an icon to you. That’s heartless and YOU are the problem. YOUR words and YOUR attitude are poison.

“I used to like you now you’re ace/aro too? it’s a fucking ploy to get more followers, get out of our community.” This is the funniest fucking thing I’ve ever read. I had “ace” in my blog description for years, thought I was aro too, added that, but recently took aro off because I am now dating my NONBINARY & ACE SIGNIFICANT OTHER who you called cishet and poison by definition of being a-spec so lmao FUCK you.

“A ploy to get more followers” wat. Who the fuck would think being ace would get you followers? Lmfao I put it in my description to discourage people from HITTING ON ME SEXUALLY. Like, man, drawing edgy skeletons got me followers, not being ace. And if I lose followers, i mean, I love my followers but if they decided they need to unfollow me for whatever reason okay! I’ve never cared about number of followers enough to “be ace/aro too” as some ploy. Lmao be ace/aro. Like it’s some like decision I made. Like it’s a choice and I’m choosing to be this way–OH WAIT THATS WHAT PEOPLE USE AS AN ARGUMENT AGAINST LGBT PEOPLE!!!

Fuck you. This is my community too and @deleriousfromcoffee ’s and every single other aro/ace who wants to be part of the LGBTQIA+ community. I’m staying and you can piss off.

And u wonder why I called u Chibbasaurus Rex once. ((Loudest voice out there.))

PREACH IT!!!